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$67,000In the BlackRelationship@BrokeBobcat_427Apr 26

Our $67K wedding almost ended us. Three years later we're debt-free with a baby on the way.

STARTED AT$31,000
RECOVERED$31,000
TIMELINE2y 10m

I posted here about our insane $67K destination wedding in Santorini. We put $31K on credit cards and spent our first year of marriage fighting about money every single day. We almost divorced over it -- literally sat in a lawyer's consultation room. That was the wake-up call. We walked out of that office, went home, and made a spreadsheet together. We sold the expensive gifts we got, consolidated debt to a lower APR, both picked up side work, and set a rule: no purchase over $50 without discussing it. Took us 34 months but we cleared the entire $31K in credit card debt. And you know what? Going through that together made our marriage stronger than any overpriced sunset ceremony ever could. Baby's due in March.

Turning PointWalked out of a divorce lawyer's office and made a spreadsheet together instead.
Lesson LearnedThe most expensive wedding gift you can give yourselves is learning to budget together.
Did the wedding debt make them stronger?

Almost divorced, now debt-free with a baby on the way

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