I posted here about our insane $67K destination wedding in Santorini. We put $31K on credit cards and spent our first year of marriage fighting about money every single day. We almost divorced over it -- literally sat in a lawyer's consultation room. That was the wake-up call. We walked out of that office, went home, and made a spreadsheet together. We sold the expensive gifts we got, consolidated debt to a lower APR, both picked up side work, and set a rule: no purchase over $50 without discussing it. Took us 34 months but we cleared the entire $31K in credit card debt. And you know what? Going through that together made our marriage stronger than any overpriced sunset ceremony ever could. Baby's due in March.
Almost divorced, now debt-free with a baby on the way